[WIP] Update and sandardize implementation of packages, in sync with spack update

[adrienbernede]

Summary

This PR :

• migrates CARE and Caliper to CachedCMakePackage, reducing the gap with implementations found in llnl/radiuss-spack-configs.
• improves coherency in version constraints across RADIUSS packages.
• updates Spack.

👀 Deserves some consideration:

• The spec added in CI for sycl on corona had +openmp. I had to turn openmp support off due to a build error. Openmp support is turned off for the same job in RAJA CI. Then I had to turn benchmarks off. Now it's something else. Allowing the job to fail for now.

⚠️ TODO Before Merge:

• Fix failing tests in intel jobs on ruby and poodle.
• Wait for merge of Update and standardize implementation of RADIUSS packages spack/spack#45648,
• then wait for subsequent develop snapshot (Sunday).
• Update Spack to new snapshot version in .uberenv-config.json.
• Confirm CI is passing.

[rhornung67]

@adrienbernede I don't understand why SYCL CI is failing. I can build and run the tests manually on corona using the scripts/lc-builds/corona_sycl.sh script. Please note that I fixed a couple of issues in this PR: #481. Those changes were necessary for me to build and run successfully.

The build script mentioned here may be helpful for you to get the CI SYCL build correct.

[rhornung67]

Also, OpenMP can be enabled for the SYCL checks.

[adrienbernede]

@rhornung67
I had turned off OpenMP because of this:

CMake Error at /usr/tce/backend/installations/linux-rhel8-x86_64/gcc-10.3.1/cmake-3.23.1-mdfqd2l7c33zg7xcvqizwz25vqmp7jfw/share/cmake-3.23/Modules/FindPackageHandleStandardArgs.cmake:230 (message):
  Could NOT find OpenMP_C (missing: OpenMP_C_FLAGS OpenMP_C_LIB_NAMES)
Call Stack (most recent call first):
  /usr/tce/backend/installations/linux-rhel8-x86_64/gcc-10.3.1/cmake-3.23.1-mdfqd2l7c33zg7xcvqizwz25vqmp7jfw/share/cmake-3.23/Modules/FindPackageHandleStandardArgs.cmake:594 (_FPHSA_FAILURE_MESSAGE)
  /usr/tce/backend/installations/linux-rhel8-x86_64/gcc-10.3.1/cmake-3.23.1-mdfqd2l7c33zg7xcvqizwz25vqmp7jfw/share/cmake-3.23/Modules/FindOpenMP.cmake:545 (find_package_handle_standard_args)
  blt/cmake/thirdparty/BLTSetupOpenMP.cmake:11 (find_package)
  blt/cmake/BLTSetupTargets.cmake:86 (include)
  blt/cmake/SetupThirdParty.cmake:6 (include)
  blt/SetupBLT.cmake:129 (include)
  CMakeLists.txt:28 (include)

I'll try with your fix.